Good grades are not the sole indicator of intelligence. They simply mean that one is able to meet deadlines and follow directions. While that shouldn't be taken for granted, people often forget that grades are a social construct. I've met more than enough people who are high functioning in a classroom, yet dumb as rocks in social settings. By that I mean they're able to complete complex tasks that are given by a teacher, but when faced with situations that involve unfamiliar variables, they're without a clue.
Manu was one of the most high achieving guys I've coached. The average player has to meet with me twice a month during the semester to check in about grades. Manu, on the other hand, wasn't required to meet with me at all. As a matter of fact, in four semesters with me his lowest grade was a "C." He even got a B in Precalculus!
Despite being a good student, Manu could never carry a conversation with me. At first I thought he was just shy. As time passed, however, I determined otherwise. I really got the picture when I found out he was dating a senior in high school despite my many warnings to the team about statutory rape. He's 20 years old and she isn't 18 yet.
At the end of his sophomore season, Manu and I had a conversation about his future. I was left puzzled by the exchange.
Me: You really need to start taking your job seriously or you're going to get fired.
Manu: It's just a part-time job so it ain't that serious.
Me: It is that serious! People can't find jobs these days.
Manu: I'll get unemployment if they fire me. I think that's why they haven't done it yet.
Me: Are you serious, man? I guess that makes sense for you, though. Right?
Manu: (laughs)
Me: What are you doing for school in the fall?
Manu: I don't know yet.
Me: Didn't you tell me you were interested in UML?
Manu: Yeh. I am.
Me: So then why haven't you applied?
Manu: I don't know how to.
Me: What? Are you kidding me? Just go online and read the damn directions.
Manu: No. Seriously, coach. I even needed help when I was applying to come here.
Our application process does not require an essay or a letter of recommendation. We simply ask for biographical information, intended major, high school(s)/college(s) attended, and a final high school transcript.
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